Posts Tagged ‘thinking’

Life Goes By in the Blink of an Eye

Sunday, December 4th, 2016

As you know, life goes by in the blink of an eye.

If there is something you want to do, do it.

If there is someone you want to see, find a way to see that person.

If you have a strong interest you’ve thought about pursuing but have never gone further than thinking about it, take the next step.

If you have something you want to say, say it now.

Once you take that next step, whatever it is, the relief you feel will be enormous.

Life will look a little different just because you stepped out and took a chance.

We never know how many days we have.

Live each day fully.

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The Next Step

Thursday, February 26th, 2015

The next step is usually taken after a great deal of thought has been given.

The next step follows appreciation for what has been learned from that which is about to be left behind.

The next step doesn’t usually happen while entrenched in frustration for the day to day happenings of the current status quo.

The next step requires processing a ton of feelings good, bad, crazy, nutty, funny, miserable, hysterical, etc.

When all is said done and considered the next step just seems to be the natural thing to do and the flow seems right.

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Stand Up for You

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2014

Stand up for yourself…

Easy to say but not so easy to do.

Hard to do when others think you’ll look like a fool.

Hard to do when you feel intimidated by what others say and do.

Easy to talk yourself out of when you feel you stand alone.

Hard to forgive yourself when you don’t do what you say you’re going to do because you fear the

wrath from one or more.

When it comes down to it, there is no one who will care more than you do about your principles.

When it comes down to it, if you don’t fight for your principles, you principles aren’t worth much to you.

What makes you step away from the plate and decide not to fight for what you think is right?

FEAR of something, someone, or noone in particular but just afraid and resistant to stepping outside your

comfort zone.

What makes you step up to the plate to fight for what you believe is right?

When you’ve finally had enough and are so disgusted with the way you feel and so sick of feeling intimidated by

one or more you will No Contactthen decide to take action.

You realize that you don’t care nearly as much about what one or more think of you.

It doesn’t matter that one or more bad mouths you or has nothing to do with you.

You get to a place in your thinking where you know that what you think of you is more important.

Stand up for yourself…

Easy to say but not so easy to do.

Be proud of yourself; you’re no fool.











When it Ends

Wednesday, July 6th, 2011

If you terminate a relationship it’s wise not to jump into a new one. Really get in there and give it a good go so you understand on a deep level why the relationship ended.

Be honest with you.

Write it all down. The good, the bad, and everything else that is relevant. Take time to walk through life on your own before adding another person to your mix.

Own up to what you did and didn’t do every bit as much as you determine what your partner did and didn’t do.

Go back to the beginning–the first time you ever laid eyes on your partner. Were there signs you should have/could have paid attention to? What were you thinking about?

In every relationship it takes two and the kindest most loving thing you can do for you is to understand the whys so you don’t repeat them.


Monday, November 22nd, 2010

Thinking is easy, acting is difficult, and to put one’s thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in the world.   Johann Wolfgang von Goethe