Posts Tagged ‘loser’

A Leader? Who, Me?

Tuesday, January 8th, 2013

Do you think of a leader as someone other than you? Some of us get into relationships with difficult individuals because we are looking for someone who we think has something we are missing or appears to be someone we are not. We gravitate toward these people and in the process shove ourselves out of our own lives.

Why do we do this? Because it is easier than stepping up to the plate and putting ourselves into the forefront of our own lives. We have the ability and we have the intelligence but what we often choose to believe is that we can’t do it and need someone else to hold us up. We might also believe that only the very charismatic are meant to be strong leaders. And that only the outspoken know what is best. Why do they know what is best? Probably because they have absolutely no problem telling us how much they know and why we should listen to and pay attention to them!

We don’t have to talk our way into leadership. Please follow this link re: The Hobbit: 

The Fear of the Loss of Money

Sunday, December 23rd, 2012

The fear of the loss of money can be quite the handicapping condition.

There are things people do and keep doing in order to have a steady stream of it. I spent years chained to situations that were not right for me because I believed I wouldn’t have money.

I learned that by exploring, researching, studying, being patient, and then bracing myself for the transition, I could break away from these situations.

Traveling through rough transitional waters is part of any journey. It’s not easy and there are challenges but the reward has been the ability to breath easier with a level of peace in my life I had forgotten existed.


Is He “the Loser”, or is He “Dad”?

Sunday, January 15th, 2012